Need to bring some fun back into your marriage?
Do you ever find yourself busy with life? Each day is filled with things that have to get done? That would be a YES for me! When life happens, and it will, we can lose focus on the most important people/things in our life. Losing focus on our family can create undue stress and relationships can break.
One of the keys to any relationship is to have it founded on Love. When we love someone we want them to be happy. Even when we love someone we can get upset and allow stress to make a mess. So the key, just as in every relationship, is to continually work on your relationship. While being mindful of how stresses and life can affect our relationships, there are things we can do to bring fun and happiness back into it. There is something my husband and I do approximately every 6 months, that is fun and insightful.
15 questions To Ask Your Spouse:
- What is something I always say?
- What makes me happy?
- What makes me sad?
- How old am I?
- How tall am I?
- What do I do when you’re not around?
- If I become famous, what will I be famous for?
- What am I good at?
- What am I not good at?
- What is my favorite food?
- What do we do together?
- How are you and I the same?
- Do you think you could live with me forever?
- How do I annoy you?
- What is your favorite thing about me?
I always write down our responses, then we read them together. It is fun to see how the answers change over time. Its a great way to also hear how your spouse views you, for instance, I didn’t realize how much I would talk about food until I read over the years of questions! There is one of my questions that has been a constant answer for me, question #3. My husband has learned something very valuable about me, what makes me sad. Some of my questions change each time, for instance, what food I really like. Taste change and that can be very valuable information. It is also a fun way to know what your spouses favorite thing about you.
We usually make this a date night, nothing fancy. We each write down our answers, then go the answers. We laugh, sometimes until we cry, but we enjoy hearing our we view each other. It can be a great tool to see if your spouse has been struggling with something which leads into great discussions.
Have fun with the questions- Enjoy each other!
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